Telling someone you care about very much that you have to detach yourself from them is one of the hardest things to do. I did it this afternoon. I could tell he was getting overwhelmed by my attempts to take care of him and to see him. My anxiety is at an all time high, and he doesn't need to be a victim of it. I'm going to miss him, but need to get things sorted out so I can be happy. Happy, with or without him.